SUCCESS IS NOT HEREDITARY

"You cannot Inherit success, You must work for It"

You can inherit money,cars ,houses,estates and so many other materials things but you cannot inherit success. Your parents worked for theirs, you must work for yours.it is an insult when you can only be identified and described what your parent did , you should make yuor own name. This means that success is not money or position but rather an internal virture which is acuired by dint of hardwork.

Succeess is what you are not what you have. You may be highly successful without having much things and you may be highly successful without having much material things and you can be rich and still be miserable.

Our cociety is full of many misrable rich people. For instance, a man that has no happy home , a failed parent, aperson that cannot walk freely among his own people, a man that is ill spoken off in the community etc. is unsuccessful no matter what he or she has. Success is making positive impact in life. It is fulfilling the purpose of your living and also being happy doing what you are doing because of the positive result you daily record. Success is also leaving a rich legacy for the coming generation. When you are successful, you live happy and die happy.

Some people are no more but ehat they did during their life time still speak for them till today.

Some of them did not have much material wealth while alive but made impact on their community . How can a man who brought civilization and lots of amenities to his people be forggotten for ever? What about a man who mobilzed his kinsmen to political consciousness and masde them see reasons successful not just a multi-millioniare that has fleet of cars and palatial buildings around the city.

For one to be successful therefoer, there are pathways:

Be a man or a woman of purpose: Live for purpose for until purpose is discorverd , exstence has no meaning. Purpose is the discorvery of what you are living for. It is the key to fulfillment in life.When you hit your purpose, you command attention.

Be focussed: After discorvering purpose, you must stay focussed. The ability to refuse distraction no matter the situation is all about.

Be Determined:It is determination that will help you stay focussed. It will help you to soldier on no matter what is happening. In the end you come up a successful person.

When you belive in yourself, you belive in GOD

Who do you believe in ?
Is it human being ? this is a very important question that we need to ask our selves because our life is what we need to put a check on , when u put a trust on anybody, and he or she never dissapoint you , that do not mean that he or she is reliable, human being is unreliable because their is dynamic in nature, so if you depend od them, they can dissapoints you anytime which can lead to heart failure, so be yourselfe!

Quotable Qtes Of Life

1 Hold nobody guilty for your trouble If It should ,int be be you, It wouldint have been you ,The only time you are a victim of that circumstance, is the only time you are your Trouble gate might just be a worthy instrument of fulfilment too.

Three Realities Of Life

1. In most every cases of circumstances in life, There are good lucks associated with bad developments, A situation hidden to a fool sihted man,but visible to a wise blind man.Your critical condition, might surface a greate fortune.



2. If you dont try to appreciate what you have, You may die of what you turned "Die Hard"
To possess.
For execessive wealth gathering in life, is to life itself.


3. Men usuallylearnt not to repent, not until he regrets. Your errorneous commitment, you may not turn-down, not until it crashes you

HIERARCHY

"Where There Is No HIERARCHY There Will Be Anarchy"

Wherever there is no order ,disorderliness will thrive.By hierarchy, I mean ranking in order of superiorrity or importance. It is also placement according to status.

On the other hand, anarchy is absence of governing rules, which results in lawlessness, rebellion, mutiny, mayhem, riot, disorder and disorganization. The society canot co-exist without a clearly defined order or a form of governance. Therefore , for sanity to prevail there must be hierarchy in the home, government and also in corporate organization.

In every family setting, the husband is the head. It is only when the man is allowed and permitted by the wife to be the king that the wife can also be the queen, and the children will be prince and princesses. Where the woman proves to be superiorr or claims equity with the man, pains, infightings and anarchy will reign.

GOD'S order must be followed to be at peace at all times.

The civil society cannot co-exist without save gorvanance. here should be government that exercises authorithy over the people for the good of the people by the people and for the ppeople, has been found to be the best system of government or discorvered by man for civil gorvernance.

In coporate organization too, there must be a recognizable head. somebody must have the final say over the affairs of the enterprise if things must work according to plan. The head however must remember that he/she holds thatpower or office in trust and it is temporal.

LOVE: A DREAM ?

When people say love is blind, I say to them that It is marriage that will restore the sight. Before marriage, opposite sex attracts but in marriage, opposite sex attracts but in marriage, the repel. Do not go into marriage blindly , those who have so gone are regretting.
Do not be forced into it either because if you do, you will equally be forced out . Go into marriage you will equally be foced out. Go into marriage with will equally be forced out. Go into marriage with your two eyes wide open. This is because whatever you do blindly will have problems. Some are already into it for no one told them love is a dream. When you dream for instance, sometimes you may see youeself as the head-of -state, abig multinational organisation, in a push car etc before someone knocks on your door and you come back to reality to discover you have been dreaming.

However, you turn your love dream into reality if you will note and do the followings:

Do not rush into love: Love is like a tender plant, It takes to grow.Somebody may just like you but say he\she loves you
Likeness and love are not the same. Some can like you if he sees what he wants in you.
If there are benefits he thinks he can derive from you but as soon as those things are no more that is rhe end.

But love means despite who and what you are or may turn out to be in future, he will always be there for you


When you wke up,, face life. You do not win a battle by running away from it , for those who have woken up to the reality that what they dreamt of was not what they found ; I say; take heart because you still turn that marriage around , only that it will be at a price . The price of patience, endurance, forbeaarance, forgiveness and of hope.Do not give up on marriage no matter what.

Love is of God : That means you need GOD to fullfill your dream until one loves GOD one cant love hes fellow .

ISOLATION

ISOLATION

Life is not meant to be lived in isolation, all alone by oneself. God knows man cannot survive all alone, that is why He created us to help and to keep each others company. For example, a child canot be born except the father and the mother come together. In many cases, other children, brother, sisters and relatives will be anxiously waiting for the arrival of the baby. This is why anxiously waiting for the arrival of the baby.This is why every childs birth is celebrated amidst fanfare and jubilation. Everyone comes to the world with great applause and celebration but if you choose to be alone, you would not be celebrated.

You need arelationship to be relevant. Even human being is limited but you can always remove your limitation by making otgers your extention. You need others just like they need you too. Every great empire, be it government, bussiness, ministry, or organiyation is made great hands. I have discoverd that what makes great are the people around him.

Astrong man can only emerge through strong backings of friends and associates. So, it is a blessing to be surrounded by good people.

You are created for greatness. Not minding your presnt situation, your life will soon turn around for better but you must be connected to good people. No matter your dream of greatness, It can only materialize through people. Though, people are not your source but they are your means of reaching the top. God uses people to lift destinies.

Be connected to the right people. Do not just associate with anybody you see for as God uses people to bless so also the devil uses people to kill and to destroy. Beware!!!