When people say love is blind, I say to them that It is marriage that will restore the sight. Before marriage, opposite sex attracts but in marriage, opposite sex attracts but in marriage, the repel. Do not go into marriage blindly , those who have so gone are regretting.
Do not be forced into it either because if you do, you will equally be forced out . Go into marriage you will equally be foced out. Go into marriage with will equally be forced out. Go into marriage with your two eyes wide open. This is because whatever you do blindly will have problems. Some are already into it for no one told them love is a dream. When you dream for instance, sometimes you may see youeself as the head-of -state, abig multinational organisation, in a push car etc before someone knocks on your door and you come back to reality to discover you have been dreaming.
However, you turn your love dream into reality if you will note and do the followings:
Do not rush into love: Love is like a tender plant, It takes to grow.Somebody may just like you but say he\she loves you
Likeness and love are not the same. Some can like you if he sees what he wants in you.
If there are benefits he thinks he can derive from you but as soon as those things are no more that is rhe end.
But love means despite who and what you are or may turn out to be in future, he will always be there for you
When you wke up,, face life. You do not win a battle by running away from it , for those who have woken up to the reality that what they dreamt of was not what they found ; I say; take heart because you still turn that marriage around , only that it will be at a price . The price of patience, endurance, forbeaarance, forgiveness and of hope.Do not give up on marriage no matter what.
Love is of God : That means you need GOD to fullfill your dream until one loves GOD one cant love hes fellow .
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